Within Nichiren Buddhism, chanting Nam-myoho-renge-kyo is regarded as a means of transforming one’s inner life state, and it is from this inner reformation that relationships and communication begin to shift. As wisdom, compassion, and life force are activated, emotional stability increases and reactive patterns such as anger, insecurity, or resentment gradually lose their grip. This strengthened inner foundation makes it easier to listen, to apologize, and to forgive without feeling diminished. In this sense, chanting functions as a discipline that cultivates self-respect and confidence, which in turn supports more authentic and respectful interactions with others.

A central perspective in this tradition is that challenging relationships are not fixed problems but karmic connections that can be transformed. Chanting with the determination to change one’s own karma, rather than to force others to change, often coincides with shifts in recurring patterns of conflict and misunderstanding. As the practice deepens, there is a growing capacity to recognize personal contributions to tension and to take responsibility for them. This self-awareness extends to communication habits—such as defensiveness, sarcasm, or withdrawal—allowing more conscious choices about words, tone, and timing.

The Lotus Sutra teaches that all people possess Buddha-nature, and chanting is said to help practitioners actually feel this truth in relation to others. As empathy and understanding for others’ suffering are awakened, even “difficult” individuals begin to be seen as possessing dignity and potential. This view naturally softens judgment and cultivates patience, making it more likely that conversations are approached with the aim of mutual understanding rather than victory in argument. In practical terms, this manifests as improved listening, greater emotional intelligence, and a more consistent effort to respect the other person’s perspective.

Chanting is also used in a very concrete way around specific relationship challenges. Many practitioners chant before difficult conversations, seeking the wisdom, courage, and calm needed to speak clearly and kindly. From this inner preparation arises the resolve to take positive action: initiating necessary dialogues, expressing appreciation, or choosing more constructive responses in moments of tension. Over time, such causes are believed to contribute to more harmonious environments in families, workplaces, and communities, as the transformation of the individual heart quietly reshapes the web of relationships that surrounds it.