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How did Amma’s hugging tradition begin?

The origin of Amma’s embrace lies in her early life in Kerala, when she was still known as Sudhamani. Immersed in devotional moods even while engaged in simple household tasks, she experienced an intense, almost overwhelming compassion for those around her who were suffering. Villagers, burdened by grief, poverty, and illness, began to approach her, seeking solace and understanding. In a social environment where physical contact between men and women was tightly regulated, her response was quietly radical. Rather than keeping a respectful distance, she chose to console directly, allowing people to rest their heads on her shoulder or chest, and eventually drawing them into a full embrace. This was not a calculated innovation, but a spontaneous overflow of empathy that disregarded conventional boundaries of caste, gender, and status.

Over time, this simple gesture of consolation took on a life of its own. People who had once come merely to unburden their hearts began to return specifically for the peace and comfort they felt in her arms. The embrace, at first an instinctive response to individual sorrow, gradually became her characteristic mode of darshan, a tangible expression of unconditional love and spiritual reassurance. As word spread, the circle widened from local villagers to seekers from farther afield, all drawn by the possibility of direct, embodied consolation. Amma herself has described this development not as the result of a deliberate plan or “mission,” but as something that arose naturally from compassion and continued because people kept coming. In this way, what began as a single, spontaneous act of motherly comfort slowly crystallized into the distinctive spiritual tradition for which she is now known.