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Rama is often portrayed as *maryādā-puruṣottama*, the exemplar of righteous conduct, and his life in the Ramayana is a sustained meditation on dharma in its many layers. As a son and prince, he accepts exile without resentment when Kaikeyi claims her boons, honoring his father’s word as inviolable and placing *pitṛ-dharma* and *rāja-dharma* above personal entitlement to the throne. This willingness to sacrifice power and comfort for the sake of a promise illustrates how dharma, in the Hindu vision, can demand painful renunciation rather than immediate happiness. His refusal to return early from exile, even when urged by Bharata, further underscores that dharma is not a matter of convenience but of steadfast commitment.
The epic also presents Rama as a model for the various relational roles through which dharma is expressed. As a husband, his unwavering devotion to Sita and his readiness to risk his life to rescue her reveal the dharma of protection and fidelity. As a brother and friend, his conduct toward Lakshmana, Bharata, and allies such as Hanuman and Sugriva is marked by loyalty, fairness, and respect, showing how dharma sustains bonds of affection and social harmony. Yet the same commitment to duty leads to decisions like Sita’s ordeal by fire and her later exile, where the welfare and perception of the kingdom are placed above personal attachment, revealing the tragic complexity that can accompany dharmic choices.
On a broader plane, Rama’s struggle against Ravana is framed not simply as personal revenge but as the restoration of a disturbed moral order. As an incarnation of Vishnu, his actions uphold *sanātana-dharma* and maintain *ṛta*, the cosmic order, by protecting sages, defending the weak, and punishing the arrogance and injustice embodied by Ravana. In this way, personal dharma (*svadharma*), social responsibility, and universal righteousness are woven together, suggesting that authentic dharmic living harmonizes individual duty with the stability of society and the cosmos. The Ramayana thus functions as a narrative guide to dharma, presenting Rama’s life as a touchstone for ethical reflection and as a living illustration of how truth, compassion, and duty can be held together, even when the cost is great.